Firstly I'd like to point out that the distance from the router will not decrease your speed that much unless the distances exceed 20m which is when you will start to notice a SMALL drop in speed (within the range of 0.1 - 0.5 Mb/s). Distance only affects the strength of the signal, meaning the farther away you are, the more likely it will be that the device's connection may suddenly drop.
If the speed decreases dramatically when connecting wirelessly (more than 1Mb difference) then there could be an issue with your wireless router. I'd try updating the firmware on the router, and see if that helps.
To ensure the fastest speed, make sure there's a filter on all devices connected to the phone sockets and try to place the router in a high, central location.
Also, make sure the router and all wireless devices are far away from any devices which may cause interference, for example baby monitors, microwaves etc. and away from walls and metal objects.
Lastly, try changing the wireless channel to a different value to make sure your neighbours wireless devices are not interfering with your connection.
You state that your laptop has 802.11n enabled technology, so perhaps you should invest in a wireless N router to ensure the fastest connection possible.